Minggu, 09 Desember 2012

ABSENT MASS ON SUNDAY.

Today, Sunday, December 9, 2012, I absent to Sunday mass.Why? I miss management myself. Improve it, Franck.  Today, Mr. Barnabas and I have  program to go to housing (perumahan) Pondok Ujung Pratama, Jl. Hankam - Pondok Melati - Pondok Gede - Bekasi. What for go to there? Mr. Egy Tantono invite us to join on thanks giving mass  40th years  monastic (hidup membiara)  of Father Yan Ladju, OFM. "The mass  start  on 11.00 am o'clock," Mr. Egy said on last Friday, December 7, 2012.
Today, in the morning I watch soccer. I get up on 03.00 am to watch soccer La Liga match. This Time Madrid vs Real Valadolid. Read Madrid win with score 3 -2. The match may be stop on 05.00 am. I feel not fresh so  I sleep again. Than I get up again almost on 09.00. We cook rice. I go to market  to buy vegetables. Than buy gas for stove. When all if food ripe, we breakfast. Than we start. May be we start  on 11.30. I forget to see  time on Metro TV.  We start. We by pass Harapan Indah - "Kanal Banjir Timur " - Cakung Station - near  gate toll Bintara - Bintara - Pondok Kopi - Bintara - Kalimalang - Pangkalan Jati - Pondok Gede - Mall of Pondok Gede - Ujung Aspal - Pondok Ujung Pratama. We ask way to people  15 times. Finally we find that place. We entrance. When we entrance the choir sing the end song. When repercussion (kumandang) azan on 12.00 am, we arrive  at Cakung station. We almost run 1,5 hour. We  had (sempat) pass alley (gang)  at near Pondok Gede Mall. Finally, we success to arrive the place that become destination of visited. We entrance. The people still busy. We join. Mr. Gaby Mahal as Master of Ceremony ask all people that still stand up to fill the chair that still empty. Mr. Barnabas  and  I  do  it. We see many people that I know just as Father Yan Ladju, OFM (Yubilaris), Father Alex Lanur, OFM, Father Peter Aman, OFM, Father Oping Tanis, OFM, Father Yoseph Masan Toron, SVD, Father Marten Jenarut, Pr.
While it, the common people (lay = common people) enough many too, e.g. Jony Plate, Gaby Mahal, Marsel Rengka and wife, Adi Jedoma, Sebas Salang, Bony Jebarus, Frans  Nembo (owner of home), Ms Edel and husband, Edys (Maxy's sister). I see  some suns (suster). They lead some childrens of  disability (cacat) that school  at LSB  Ruteng. I see  nun (suster) of  Tika. Sr. Tika is my yunior when school at Saint Klaus - Kuwu.  We are  not  speak.
This party be  hold (diselenggarakan) by Cibal - Manggarai people. Father  Yan Ladju, OFM  from Cibal. He speak nicely. In my life, I remember, Mr. Alex Bora as people that  very strong  tease (menggoda) me. "Please left of  monastery (biara). This is good become wife,  he said  in last  time," father  Yan  remember  the story in last  time with his  family.  "I love  Fransiskan style of life, I decide," I say that  time  and  until now," he said. "Please go ahead," Ms Eden try to give  support. So many family to support me. They come from Manggarai, Kupang, Lembata, Jogyakarta. "Thank you very much for your  kindness," he says. Than we lunch. After luch we  permission  than  go back. We by pass Jl. Hankam - Pondok Melati - Jati Warna - Pondok Gede - Jl. Jariwaringin - Pangkalan Jati - Kali Malang - . At Toll road of Cakung - Cilincing  we turn to  left -, at neat gate toll of  Bintara  we turn to  right - straight - arrive at Bintara housing - We ask the people almost  three times  finally  find the place. We by pass Kali Baru - Kranji - Harapan Indah - Villa Mutiara Gading. We are  thirsty (haus). We stop at Kampung Bogor, Harapan Indah. We drink mango juice (jus). I buy  needle (jarum), cotton buds (corect kuping), sewing  thread (benabg jahit).  Than we continue  to  home. We rest.
I call  to  home. I  dialog with Hila, my brother, Mom  Regina  and  Mery, my older sister. We discuss about activity advent at Wela, include reforestation (reboisasi) on spring (mata air), limit of cemetery (pekuburan), and customary land (tanah adat).  Please have dream to Wela  as Customary Village, so please  care to spring and the other  customary symbol ," I say. Tomorrow, we have religion activity (confession= pengakuan dosa) in "Rumah Gendang". May be after  it, we open discuss what is real action of advent and Christmas. We try to speak about reforestation to spring and cemetery," he says. Father Marsel Agot, SVD - through Mr. Valens Abu - sms  me  that  please prepare land to forestation (reboisasi), the seed (bibit) tree  already prepare," Hila says. In last  time he spoke to me that may be we need plant the tree that only can catch water e.g. "banana of forest, "pandan, without plant the production tree ("lumu", mahogany, sengon, ampupu, etc). "May be we plant local tree e.g. fig (ara) tree, banyan (beringin), " Hila says. "Please do it," I say.
Than  I  dialog with mom  of  Regina. "What is real action of  advent and Christmas  for you in frame environment?" I ask. In private garden  at  pall (public forest) , I had plant (tanam)  "Lumu" tree. It's  so many  "Lumu" tree  there. "Please plant   at Bangka too," I say. "Can we plant with Mahogany (mahoni) tree there? she ask. "Okay, please do it," I say.
If it life, " I will send  money to you to pay employee," I say. "Oh....may be your brother, Hila take the seed (benih) of Mahogany at Rejing. Mr. Alex have seed of mahogany very many," she says. "Okay, I agree," thank you," I say.
Than I talk with Ms. Marry, my  older  sister. "I just go back  from Lengor. I finish censorship (sensor) of  beam (balok) and board (papan). Mr. Saver  want  to build  home. He had buy land  to make  home. May be on next July 2013  build  it," she says.
Before speak with Marry and  Mom  of  Regina  I speak  with  Hila  about Mr. Yahanes Baldan (Hanes). In last time Hanes call me to ask my opinion  about  land at Doro. There are  three lands / gardens that owner Mr. Domi Itung  in last  time. Now, Vincent, Mr. Domi Itung's  child who t married with girl from Doro want to take three garden that own of  Mr. Domi Itung. While,almost 20 years this gardens  be worked  by Mr. Yohanes  Baldan and Mr. Yoseph. Now, Mr. Vincent want to take it now. "We want to submit the garden that no plant, just as coffee tree, pecan trees (pohon kemiri), while the garden that have plant (cofee trees, pecan trees), we objection because we life  from that plants and garden," Mr. Yohanes Baldan tell. "May be they discuss how the best solution, e.g. please the garden that have trees of coffee, pecan trees  share  between Yohanes Baldan / Yoseph  and  Vincent,  Hila  says.

In afternoon, Mr. Gaspar come from Pondok Gede  to join Father Yan Ladju OFM's  mass thanks giving. He invite Dimas - Mr. Anto's child  to  come to  home. Dimas sleep  and play   in our sleep room. Than he go back.
Mr. Barnabas  and  I cook vegetable (carrot, sprouts(tauge), chicory (sawi putih), fried tempeh. Than we  watch TV. Than Mr. Anto  come. "Please come to home," he says. Mr. Gaspar, Mr. Barnabas and I come. What happen?" Mr. Barnabas ask. Evidently, Ms Lusy birthday. We say happy birhday to Ms. Lusy. Ms. Lusy teach at Mahatma Gading School. We eat  noodles (mie) that mix with chicken. Than we eat mango, banana, and "lemper". Lemper is local food that made from rice than put on banana leaf (daun).  Than we by the way. Than we back. Than rest.

In the morning on Monday, December 10, 2012, I ask to Mr. Egy the Church of Kampung Sawah. It's opposite with housing   Pondok Ujung Pratama. "Oh... may be in next time I can go to there to mass," I say.

Sunday, July  30, 2017.  I absent  join on holy mass  because miss manage the time.  Today I visit Mom Regina and brothers in  youngest  brother home, Mr. Rony in Bukit Tempayan, Sawangan, Depok, West Java. Today we come to Jakarta to measure and  cut  dress  in ITC  Cempaka Mass, Central Jakarta. My younger brother, Mr. John  and I accompany Mom of Regina  from  Sawangan Depok till Jakarta. We use  public car. Than move to train in Depok Baru until at Juanda station -  than use busway to Cempaka Mass. We try to  accompany our mam with  patient (sabar). Because busy in Cempaka Mass, we forget  see schedule  the mass. I want to join the end mass at 20:00 pm at Saint Paskalis Cempaka Putuh Church but evidently today non that time because there is Inculturation  Holy Mass  in frame event the Joyful Youth Meeting of Asia 2017 in Indonesia. So  the Holymass on afternoon, only once is on 19:00 pm. I entrance the Cempaka Putih Church. I get the end of Holy Mass.


Sunday, August 6, 2017. I absent  join on holy mass  because miss manage the time. Today we have meeting at Cikarang to discuss preparation Rony - Vony's married on August 19, 2017. The meeting at Mr. Leo's house in Cikarang.

During Pandemic 2019 - April 2022
 I gegin on to the Church on  Sunday, April 2022, begin go to the Church and pray there. During Pandemic, I'm join on Holy Mass  in home by online. 


Sunday, Nov. 13, 2022. I absent  join on holy mass  because miss manage the time. Why? I'm busy to service  my brother in law (saudara ipar) Mr. Largus  and  my my nephew, Mr. Pendik (Ferdy) Jelatu  and  my niece (keponakan  perempuan), Ms Any.   All tree sleep in our   rent  (kontrakan). I'm  busy to service   the prepare the breakfast, talk to them. I'm cancel to go to the church in the morning. I'm talk  with Mr. Largus. "I want to join Holy Mass in  Depok in afternoon," I say . We breakfast, Ms. Elin, Ms. Tely and Ms. Rensy.  Mr. Pendik, Ms Any get up. Than we prepare ourselves to go to Depok. We wait Mr. Ones who come  from Bekasi.  He delivered Mr. Largus, Mr. Pendik, Ms Any  yesterday than he went   to Bekasi Timur. In middle day Mr. Ones come. Mr. Ones is  boyfriends (pacar)   of  Ms. Any.  
They came from  Jakarta yesterday. Before Mr. Largus dan Mr. Pendik  stayed in Mr. Tinus's house in  housing of  Kondang Asri, Kondang Jaya   Karawang Timur,  Karawang. 
In middle day Mr. Ones  come. We lunch than we prepare ourselves to go to  Depok, West Java in Mr. Rony's house. We who go to Depok today are Mr. Largus, Mr. Pendik, Ms Any,  Ms. Tely and  I.  Mr. Ones drive car to us.  We by pass Harapan Indah - KBT  - we  lost (tersesat) in near Pulo  Gebang terminal. We wrong choose the way. We back to  Rawa Kuning - Jl. Raya Bekasi,  Metland Menteng. Wow..... I'm wrong to give instruction  to Mr. Ones who drive the car.   So our journey wordy (bertele-tele) and getting far away (menjauh)   from gate toll of Pulo Gebang.  Than we by pass Cakung - Terminal Pulo Gang gate of toll.  Jati Warna - Tall JOR -  Cijantung - Cilandak - South Jakarta  (Jakarta Selatan) -  Andara - Krukut  - Brigif -   Sawangan - We must turn   and  cross the winding road in Limo.  Sawangan - River View  house, Rm. Rony's house.   The big rain come. We ask Mr. Sandy  to prepare the umbrella or plastic to protec us from  rain.  We entrance to Mr. Rony's house. We by the way.  We Met Mr. Rony, her daughter is Lariska dan our niece Ms Elvy. We by the way. Ms. Tely go to Mr. Ino's house. Mr. Sandy delivery her.  Mr. Ino dan his families  still othe way  from Semarang to Depok.  Ms. Oden stay in home. Ms Tely talk with Ms Oden there.  Than Mr. Largus say  "Kepok Tuak" as  thank you greeting to us  as anak rona  simultan invite us to join Ms. Any's  engagement (pertunangann)  with  her boyfreind , Mr. Ones  will be happend on  Saturday, Nov. 19, 2022.  "He say it while crying. He remember again our sister, his wife, Mrs. Tina Jelita."  
We by the way.  Mrs. Vony,   still entrance of work. She  is nurse in Hospital  of  Permata - Sawangan, Depok. In afternoon she go back. We by the way.  Ms. Vony and Ms. Elvy cook the food.  Mr. Flory and Mr. Sandy had arrive  before we come.  They come from  Sentul. They work in Sentul. 
In evening we supper. Lariska's mom  and Ms Elvy cook the good menu is chicken and noodles.  We eat fruits too. Than we go back to Bekasi on  on 21.00 pm.  Mr. Sandy go  to Mr. Ino home to pick up Ms. Tely. 


Sunday, Nov. 20, 2022. I absent  join on holy mass  because miss manage the time. Why? I'm  slept late in last time  because join  on event of engagement of Any and Yones on Saturday, Nov. 19, 2022 in Karawang. The event start on 20.00  pm  and finish on 22.30  pm  . Thasn we supper. Than take picture. The guest of Anak Wina go back and same of families who from Cikarang go back too. They are Mr. Leo  and families, Mr. Nando and families,  Mr. Edu and his couple, Mr. Marcel and his couple, Mr. Rony and his families. I'm decide to seep in Karawang. I'm sleep alone in a room.  Than I'm get up on 5.00 am. Than  i take a bath. I read the Bible.  I'm not so good of feel of body. I want to go to the church. I see on internet. The Holy Mass start on 08.30 am. I'm not so good. I'm decide to sleep again. I'm get up on 09.00 am. Than we  breakfat. Ms Kory and Ms Megy go back earlier.  They use  GOCAR.  to Cikarang station.  Mr. Martin, Mr. Largus  I and Mr. Pendeik breakfast. We y the way.  Than Ms. Any, Ms Egy , Mr. Ones and I    and some brothers who one company with Any  help to handle  Mr. Martin's room.  Mrs Martin go to the church. We wait her to go back to Cikarang.  Mr. Largus , Mr. Pendik , Ms. Any, Mr. Ones and friends want to permission . Mr. Largus  and Mr. Pendik will go back to Manggarai  tomorrow. Ms Any, Mr. Ones, Ms Egy  and friends  want to go back to Jakarta  and I want to go to Cikarang, want to  stop by in Mr. Leo's house. Mrs Martin come  from the Church. Than we permission. We start to Cikarang. One  car delivery Ms. Any and Mr. Ones's  friends .  Evidently they go  direct  go to Jakarta, while we  stop by to Cikarang. We by pass Toll Karawang Timur - Karawang Barat - Cikarang Pusat - Cikarang  Barat - JABABEKA - Mr. Ones stop by at    Farmers  (Mall Jababeka). He buy beer.  . Than we continue to Jl. Antilop 8 No. 7.  We arrive there on 14.00 pm. Than Mr. Leo dan families, Mr. Rony and families, Mr. Marcel  accept us. We by the way. Than Mr. Largus talk about  "Pau Tuak" as sign thanks to  us for our help  to  smooth Ms Any's event of engagement last  night. He want to pemission too.  Than we lunch.  Than we by the way. Mr. Largus hurry up go go back. He feel  hot. So he sit down outside.  On afternoon Mr. Largus, Mr. Pendik,  Ms . Any, Mrs. Vony and their daughter . Lriska , Ms Elvy go back  to Jakarta/ Depok.  Mr. Marcel go back earlier. Ms. .......and her husband and their dugheter, Maudy come too. We by the way. Than  they go back.  On 19.00 pm we  supper. I'at eating too. Than Ickeck my blood pressure. Wow...enough high 185 /........  Mr. Leo give me medicine.  Than Mr. Rony and I permission.  I order GOJEK. It so long. Than The GOJEK  come. He delivery me to Cikarang Station. I pay IDR 32.000. I'm regret that people.  According to me he is not  fun(asyik).  Just as he is Java people.  I dislike his way to response talk or speak.  My HP low bateray. Than  I entrance to train. Mr. Rony evidently still wait me. We by the way about aou life. He ask my plan to build  home in Labuan bajo because I'm not yet have home. I ask him about progress of thesis.  Than he sleep. I exit in Kranji. I permission but he still sleep. I wait  car to Harapan Indah but none, so I use K 25 to gate of Harapan Indah.  Than I on foot to Hospital of Citra Harapan.  There is KWK Jack Lingko but I'm not have Jak Lingko Car. So, I'm  still   on foot . Than  I arrive there. I pay motor cyele  parking ID 30.000 for 2 days. Than I go back to home. I'n not join On sunday Holu mass  today. 

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