Today, Sunday, December 9, 2012, I absent to Sunday mass.Why? I miss management myself. Improve it, Franck. Today, Mr. Barnabas and I have program to go to housing (perumahan) Pondok Ujung Pratama, Jl. Hankam - Pondok Melati - Pondok Gede - Bekasi. What for go to there? Mr. Egy Tantono invite us to join on thanks giving mass 40th years monastic (hidup membiara) of Father Yan Ladju, OFM. "The mass start on 11.00 am o'clock," Mr. Egy said on last Friday, December 7, 2012.
Today, in the morning I watch soccer. I get up on 03.00 am to watch soccer La Liga match. This Time Madrid vs Real Valadolid. Read Madrid win with score 3 -2. The match may be stop on 05.00 am. I feel not fresh so I sleep again. Than I get up again almost on 09.00. We cook rice. I go to market to buy vegetables. Than buy gas for stove. When all if food ripe, we breakfast. Than we start. May be we start on 11.30. I forget to see time on Metro TV. We start. We by pass Harapan Indah - "Kanal Banjir Timur " - Cakung Station - near gate toll Bintara - Bintara - Pondok Kopi - Bintara - Kalimalang - Pangkalan Jati - Pondok Gede - Mall of Pondok Gede - Ujung Aspal - Pondok Ujung Pratama. We ask way to people 15 times. Finally we find that place. We entrance. When we entrance the choir sing the end song. When repercussion (kumandang) azan on 12.00 am, we arrive at Cakung station. We almost run 1,5 hour. We had (sempat) pass alley (gang) at near Pondok Gede Mall. Finally, we success to arrive the place that become destination of visited. We entrance. The people still busy. We join. Mr. Gaby Mahal as Master of Ceremony ask all people that still stand up to fill the chair that still empty. Mr. Barnabas and I do it. We see many people that I know just as Father Yan Ladju, OFM (Yubilaris), Father Alex Lanur, OFM, Father Peter Aman, OFM, Father Oping Tanis, OFM, Father Yoseph Masan Toron, SVD, Father Marten Jenarut, Pr.
While it, the common people (lay = common people) enough many too, e.g. Jony Plate, Gaby Mahal, Marsel Rengka and wife, Adi Jedoma, Sebas Salang, Bony Jebarus, Frans Nembo (owner of home), Ms Edel and husband, Edys (Maxy's sister). I see some suns (suster). They lead some childrens of disability (cacat) that school at LSB Ruteng. I see nun (suster) of Tika. Sr. Tika is my yunior when school at Saint Klaus - Kuwu. We are not speak.
This party be hold (diselenggarakan) by Cibal - Manggarai people. Father Yan Ladju, OFM from Cibal. He speak nicely. In my life, I remember, Mr. Alex Bora as people that very strong tease (menggoda) me. "Please left of monastery (biara). This is good become wife, he said in last time," father Yan remember the story in last time with his family. "I love Fransiskan style of life, I decide," I say that time and until now," he said. "Please go ahead," Ms Eden try to give support. So many family to support me. They come from Manggarai, Kupang, Lembata, Jogyakarta. "Thank you very much for your kindness," he says. Than we lunch. After luch we permission than go back. We by pass Jl. Hankam - Pondok Melati - Jati Warna - Pondok Gede - Jl. Jariwaringin - Pangkalan Jati - Kali Malang - . At Toll road of Cakung - Cilincing we turn to left -, at neat gate toll of Bintara we turn to right - straight - arrive at Bintara housing - We ask the people almost three times finally find the place. We by pass Kali Baru - Kranji - Harapan Indah - Villa Mutiara Gading. We are thirsty (haus). We stop at Kampung Bogor, Harapan Indah. We drink mango juice (jus). I buy needle (jarum), cotton buds (corect kuping), sewing thread (benabg jahit). Than we continue to home. We rest.
I call to home. I dialog with Hila, my brother, Mom Regina and Mery, my older sister. We discuss about activity advent at Wela, include reforestation (reboisasi) on spring (mata air), limit of cemetery (pekuburan), and customary land (tanah adat). Please have dream to Wela as Customary Village, so please care to spring and the other customary symbol ," I say. Tomorrow, we have religion activity (confession= pengakuan dosa) in "Rumah Gendang". May be after it, we open discuss what is real action of advent and Christmas. We try to speak about reforestation to spring and cemetery," he says. Father Marsel Agot, SVD - through Mr. Valens Abu - sms me that please prepare land to forestation (reboisasi), the seed (bibit) tree already prepare," Hila says. In last time he spoke to me that may be we need plant the tree that only can catch water e.g. "banana of forest, "pandan, without plant the production tree ("lumu", mahogany, sengon, ampupu, etc). "May be we plant local tree e.g. fig (ara) tree, banyan (beringin), " Hila says. "Please do it," I say.
Than I dialog with mom of Regina. "What is real action of advent and Christmas for you in frame environment?" I ask. In private garden at pall (public forest) , I had plant (tanam) "Lumu" tree. It's so many "Lumu" tree there. "Please plant at Bangka too," I say. "Can we plant with Mahogany (mahoni) tree there? she ask. "Okay, please do it," I say.
If it life, " I will send money to you to pay employee," I say. "Oh....may be your brother, Hila take the seed (benih) of Mahogany at Rejing. Mr. Alex have seed of mahogany very many," she says. "Okay, I agree," thank you," I say.
Than I talk with Ms. Marry, my older sister. "I just go back from Lengor. I finish censorship (sensor) of beam (balok) and board (papan). Mr. Saver want to build home. He had buy land to make home. May be on next July 2013 build it," she says.
Before speak with Marry and Mom of Regina I speak with Hila about Mr. Yahanes Baldan (Hanes). In last time Hanes call me to ask my opinion about land at Doro. There are three lands / gardens that owner Mr. Domi Itung in last time. Now, Vincent, Mr. Domi Itung's child who t married with girl from Doro want to take three garden that own of Mr. Domi Itung. While,almost 20 years this gardens be worked by Mr. Yohanes Baldan and Mr. Yoseph. Now, Mr. Vincent want to take it now. "We want to submit the garden that no plant, just as coffee tree, pecan trees (pohon kemiri), while the garden that have plant (cofee trees, pecan trees), we objection because we life from that plants and garden," Mr. Yohanes Baldan tell. "May be they discuss how the best solution, e.g. please the garden that have trees of coffee, pecan trees share between Yohanes Baldan / Yoseph and Vincent, Hila says.
In afternoon, Mr. Gaspar come from Pondok Gede to join Father Yan Ladju OFM's mass thanks giving. He invite Dimas - Mr. Anto's child to come to home. Dimas sleep and play in our sleep room. Than he go back.
Mr. Barnabas and I cook vegetable (carrot, sprouts(tauge), chicory (sawi putih), fried tempeh. Than we watch TV. Than Mr. Anto come. "Please come to home," he says. Mr. Gaspar, Mr. Barnabas and I come. What happen?" Mr. Barnabas ask. Evidently, Ms Lusy birthday. We say happy birhday to Ms. Lusy. Ms. Lusy teach at Mahatma Gading School. We eat noodles (mie) that mix with chicken. Than we eat mango, banana, and "lemper". Lemper is local food that made from rice than put on banana leaf (daun). Than we by the way. Than we back. Than rest.
In the morning on Monday, December 10, 2012, I ask to Mr. Egy the Church of Kampung Sawah. It's opposite with housing Pondok Ujung Pratama. "Oh... may be in next time I can go to there to mass," I say.
Sunday, July 30, 2017. I absent join on holy mass because miss manage the time. Today I visit Mom Regina and brothers in youngest brother home, Mr. Rony in Bukit Tempayan, Sawangan, Depok, West Java. Today we come to Jakarta to measure and cut dress in ITC Cempaka Mass, Central Jakarta. My younger brother, Mr. John and I accompany Mom of Regina from Sawangan Depok till Jakarta. We use public car. Than move to train in Depok Baru until at Juanda station - than use busway to Cempaka Mass. We try to accompany our mam with patient (sabar). Because busy in Cempaka Mass, we forget see schedule the mass. I want to join the end mass at 20:00 pm at Saint Paskalis Cempaka Putuh Church but evidently today non that time because there is Inculturation Holy Mass in frame event the Joyful Youth Meeting of Asia 2017 in Indonesia. So the Holymass on afternoon, only once is on 19:00 pm. I entrance the Cempaka Putih Church. I get the end of Holy Mass.
Sunday, August 6, 2017. I absent join on holy mass because miss manage the time. Today we have meeting at Cikarang to discuss preparation Rony - Vony's married on August 19, 2017. The meeting at Mr. Leo's house in Cikarang.
During Pandemic 2019 - April 2022
I gegin on to the Church on Sunday, April 2022, begin go to the Church and pray there. During Pandemic, I'm join on Holy Mass in home by online.
Sunday, Nov. 13, 2022. I absent join on holy mass because miss manage the time. Why? I'm busy to service my brother in law (saudara ipar) Mr. Largus and my my nephew, Mr. Pendik (Ferdy) Jelatu and my niece (keponakan perempuan), Ms Any. All tree sleep in our rent (kontrakan). I'm busy to service the prepare the breakfast, talk to them. I'm cancel to go to the church in the morning. I'm talk with Mr. Largus. "I want to join Holy Mass in Depok in afternoon," I say . We breakfast, Ms. Elin, Ms. Tely and Ms. Rensy. Mr. Pendik, Ms Any get up. Than we prepare ourselves to go to Depok. We wait Mr. Ones who come from Bekasi. He delivered Mr. Largus, Mr. Pendik, Ms Any yesterday than he went to Bekasi Timur. In middle day Mr. Ones come. Mr. Ones is boyfriends (pacar) of Ms. Any.
They came from Jakarta yesterday. Before Mr. Largus dan Mr. Pendik stayed in Mr. Tinus's house in housing of Kondang Asri, Kondang Jaya Karawang Timur, Karawang.
In middle day Mr. Ones come. We lunch than we prepare ourselves to go to Depok, West Java in Mr. Rony's house. We who go to Depok today are Mr. Largus, Mr. Pendik, Ms Any, Ms. Tely and I. Mr. Ones drive car to us. We by pass Harapan Indah - KBT - we lost (tersesat) in near Pulo Gebang terminal. We wrong choose the way. We back to Rawa Kuning - Jl. Raya Bekasi, Metland Menteng. Wow..... I'm wrong to give instruction to Mr. Ones who drive the car. So our journey wordy (bertele-tele) and getting far away (menjauh) from gate toll of Pulo Gebang. Than we by pass Cakung - Terminal Pulo Gang gate of toll. Jati Warna - Tall JOR - Cijantung - Cilandak - South Jakarta (Jakarta Selatan) - Andara - Krukut - Brigif - Sawangan - We must turn and cross the winding road in Limo. Sawangan - River View house, Rm. Rony's house. The big rain come. We ask Mr. Sandy to prepare the umbrella or plastic to protec us from rain. We entrance to Mr. Rony's house. We by the way. We Met Mr. Rony, her daughter is Lariska dan our niece Ms Elvy. We by the way. Ms. Tely go to Mr. Ino's house. Mr. Sandy delivery her. Mr. Ino dan his families still othe way from Semarang to Depok. Ms. Oden stay in home. Ms Tely talk with Ms Oden there. Than Mr. Largus say "Kepok Tuak" as thank you greeting to us as anak rona simultan invite us to join Ms. Any's engagement (pertunangann) with her boyfreind , Mr. Ones will be happend on Saturday, Nov. 19, 2022. "He say it while crying. He remember again our sister, his wife, Mrs. Tina Jelita."
We by the way. Mrs. Vony, still entrance of work. She is nurse in Hospital of Permata - Sawangan, Depok. In afternoon she go back. We by the way. Ms. Vony and Ms. Elvy cook the food. Mr. Flory and Mr. Sandy had arrive before we come. They come from Sentul. They work in Sentul.
In evening we supper. Lariska's mom and Ms Elvy cook the good menu is chicken and noodles. We eat fruits too. Than we go back to Bekasi on on 21.00 pm. Mr. Sandy go to Mr. Ino home to pick up Ms. Tely.
Sunday, Nov. 20, 2022. I absent join on holy mass because miss manage the time. Why? I'm slept late in last time because join on event of engagement of Any and Yones on Saturday, Nov. 19, 2022 in Karawang. The event start on 20.00 pm and finish on 22.30 pm . Thasn we supper. Than take picture. The guest of Anak Wina go back and same of families who from Cikarang go back too. They are Mr. Leo and families, Mr. Nando and families, Mr. Edu and his couple, Mr. Marcel and his couple, Mr. Rony and his families. I'm decide to seep in Karawang. I'm sleep alone in a room. Than I'm get up on 5.00 am. Than i take a bath. I read the Bible. I'm not so good of feel of body. I want to go to the church. I see on internet. The Holy Mass start on 08.30 am. I'm not so good. I'm decide to sleep again. I'm get up on 09.00 am. Than we breakfat. Ms Kory and Ms Megy go back earlier. They use GOCAR. to Cikarang station. Mr. Martin, Mr. Largus I and Mr. Pendeik breakfast. We y the way. Than Ms. Any, Ms Egy , Mr. Ones and I and some brothers who one company with Any help to handle Mr. Martin's room. Mrs Martin go to the church. We wait her to go back to Cikarang. Mr. Largus , Mr. Pendik , Ms. Any, Mr. Ones and friends want to permission . Mr. Largus and Mr. Pendik will go back to Manggarai tomorrow. Ms Any, Mr. Ones, Ms Egy and friends want to go back to Jakarta and I want to go to Cikarang, want to stop by in Mr. Leo's house. Mrs Martin come from the Church. Than we permission. We start to Cikarang. One car delivery Ms. Any and Mr. Ones's friends . Evidently they go direct go to Jakarta, while we stop by to Cikarang. We by pass Toll Karawang Timur - Karawang Barat - Cikarang Pusat - Cikarang Barat - JABABEKA - Mr. Ones stop by at Farmers (Mall Jababeka). He buy beer. . Than we continue to Jl. Antilop 8 No. 7. We arrive there on 14.00 pm. Than Mr. Leo dan families, Mr. Rony and families, Mr. Marcel accept us. We by the way. Than Mr. Largus talk about "Pau Tuak" as sign thanks to us for our help to smooth Ms Any's event of engagement last night. He want to pemission too. Than we lunch. Than we by the way. Mr. Largus hurry up go go back. He feel hot. So he sit down outside. On afternoon Mr. Largus, Mr. Pendik, Ms . Any, Mrs. Vony and their daughter . Lriska , Ms Elvy go back to Jakarta/ Depok. Mr. Marcel go back earlier. Ms. .......and her husband and their dugheter, Maudy come too. We by the way. Than they go back. On 19.00 pm we supper. I'at eating too. Than Ickeck my blood pressure. Wow...enough high 185 /........ Mr. Leo give me medicine. Than Mr. Rony and I permission. I order GOJEK. It so long. Than The GOJEK come. He delivery me to Cikarang Station. I pay IDR 32.000. I'm regret that people. According to me he is not fun(asyik). Just as he is Java people. I dislike his way to response talk or speak. My HP low bateray. Than I entrance to train. Mr. Rony evidently still wait me. We by the way about aou life. He ask my plan to build home in Labuan bajo because I'm not yet have home. I ask him about progress of thesis. Than he sleep. I exit in Kranji. I permission but he still sleep. I wait car to Harapan Indah but none, so I use K 25 to gate of Harapan Indah. Than I on foot to Hospital of Citra Harapan. There is KWK Jack Lingko but I'm not have Jak Lingko Car. So, I'm still on foot . Than I arrive there. I pay motor cyele parking ID 30.000 for 2 days. Than I go back to home. I'n not join On sunday Holu mass today.
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